Why raising mental health awareness for first gen professionals and the Latino community is so important:
šš½There is still a lot of stigma in these communities for experiencing mental health challenges. Thereās stigma around seeking therapy. People may say youāre crazy or loco/a. So we often donāt talk about whatās going on, or seek therapy or we hide that we have a therapist.
šš½There is a history of so much anxiety and depression that was rarely/never medically diagnosed but exists in many of our family histories. We arenāt always told of this history.
šš½Pushing through no matter what is a belief ingrained in us as a strength because our parents were often in survival mode and we saw them push through.
šš½We guilt ourselves and use ājust be thankfulā as a weapon against ourselves when we are going through a hard time. Our feelings of hardship are valid but we minimize them, telling ourselves we should just be grateful for what we have and stop complaining or wanting something better.
šš½Similarly, we often look at the struggles of our ancestors, community and parents and say: they had it worse than me so Iām not going to complain. Instead, we bottle it all up.
šš½We will rarely ask for help. We werenāt taught to trust easily. We often grew up in protection mode.
šš½We often feel the need to prove ourselves. Itās not just on us. Because we are so underrepresented in leadership in law firms and corporate america, its harder for us see ourselves in those positions and to feel like we truly belong in the spaces we occupy.
šš½Our work ethic is insane and our expectations of ourselves will always be higher than ones others have of us. But it can harm our well-being. We can work work work to get it all done. We will work to the point of exhaustion and burnout, because of the two previous reasons I mentioned.
šš½We grew up seeing self-sacrifice as the norm so taking care of ourselves first and prioritize self-care is a major mindset shift and behavioral change for us.
Maybe these are more universal and you can relate to these.
What resonates the most?
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